So you gut hurt in the past, you got burnt by love and you swore ....... never again.
Now you are passing up on opportunities on love, you've built walls around your heart and promised yourself that you will never allow anyone to hurt you like that again.
What are you doing ???
You are labeling everyone. And I know men all kinda have the same labels, true .... maybe I just haven't met the one with the right label, maybe they are all just fake labels, but we still fall for them, they still make us melt in the most peculiar ways.
Yes I know men are assholes, doen's mean we are not taken by them.
Look they charm us, wine us, dine us.
They have this horrible attitude on life - women love to be screwed.
Can I tell you one thing though, we hate being screwed over .............
Men has the attitude of 'the power in any relationship lies with the one that cares less and believe me, they've mastered that one.
Just note - power is not happiness.
Happiness is about caring more about someone than less.....
So ..... you are afraid of letting go, you are afraid of allowing yourself to feel again ...... blocking out for the sake of never feeling the hurt again.
Can I tell you one thing ....
Don't run away from love ...
Don't get scared when love comes knocking on your door ...
Don't cut someone short for the 'just in case they hurt me' scenario .....
You need to risk love ......
That doesn't mean you are not going to get hurt, but
Any pain that you will feel, will never compare to the pain of regret that comes from walking away from love.
Regret has a way of eating at you, gnawing at your heart, making you miserable .....
Regret can fill your whole being with remorse.
Don't let it happen ....... don't let yourself go........
Let someone special break down those walls you've built around your heart,
the stones will be lying at your feet, if needs be, you just pick them up and start building again.
Give that someone a chance - it might just be Mr Right .......
you wouldn't know if you don't try.
What if ....... that was sincerity.......and you blew it ...... would you be able to live with the regret????????
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